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School Days
by Jeremy Quinton

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The train stopped, the door opened, I got off… and there he was, waiting for the next one…

I hadn’t seen him for at least fifteen years but he was easy to recognise. A bit bigger in the face and body, but there was no doubt in my mind.

It was Darren!

“You’re Darren, aren’t you?� I ventured, and without giving him time to answer, I continued, “I don’t know if you’ll remember me, but we were in the same class at school. My name’s Je…�.

“Yeah, it’s Jeremy, isn’t it? How are you doing?� he replied.

For the next five minutes or so we chatted about what we’d both been doing since we last saw each other, and about people we knew. Since being one of the loudest boys in the class and leaving school at sixteen, Darren had met an Irish girl, moved over to Ireland, got four kids and a solid job. His train to London was leaving in two minutes so our chat was brief. As Darren’s train headed north, I travelled back in my mind to all those school days, to the teachers, especially to the other classmates…

Miss Gamage was our bright, blond, and cheerful tutor who read the list of our names every morning before classes started, and then it was time for us and the other one thousand one hundred and seventy students to “go out and learn�!!

For the last two years of secondary school I’d been in the same class of about thirty kids. Stuart was a boy who spent more time off school than at school, with a range of different “mystery� illnesses. Colette was the thin, pretty one who never went anywhere without Alison, who lived on the edge of town near Stephen Minter, who used to go to the pub called the White Swan, to play darts…

The other Alison was a lovely girl who used to turn the colour of tomatoes when Miss Gamage said her name, and next to her there was always Vicky, who knew more about life at the age of sixteen than half of the class together.

Lisa was a fantastic, warm, friend to everyone, until a year later, when she died in a car crash. Our class was made special partly because we had two Stephen Richardsons—the tall, dark Spanish-looking one who had a leather jacket and a racing bike, and the other Stephen Richardson, shorter, faster, big front teeth and great at maths.

But of all the kids in the class, if not school, the one who stood out most in my mind was Barry, Barry Holden. The youngest of three brothers, Barry’s parents had a junk shop in the town centre, and a big white van which used to appear at the school from time to time (which was normally a sign that one of the brothers had done something wrong!).

Barry was a joker, a wizard, a bundle of fun, and a bag of tricks all rolled into one. He was small, skinny in fact, and he was often bullied by the other kids. But he had a fast brain, the gift of the gab, and a heart of gold to go with it. None of those things he acquired at school.

I’d love to know where they all are now, but especially Barry, and what he’s doing. The junk shop’s closed and the only way of finding him is to keep my eyes open when I’m back in England visiting…

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Paola
Re: School Days by Paola

I’m in touch with primary and secondary school classmates thanks to the Internet. By googling their names, I’ve been able to track down quite a few ex-classmates. If they had very common names, I was able to find them because I knew that they had studied Archaeology or Chemistry, and was thus able to find them in subject-oriented websites. Jeremy, have you tried to google Barry?

Daveholl
Friends Reunited by Dave

Perhaps you can find Barry and the others on Friends Reunited – however, be careful who you contact as it can be quite dangerous...
:-)

Quinton
Re: School Days by Jeremy

No…Barry isn’t googleable…and he isn’t on Friends Reunited either.Maybe he’s in Oz like you Paola!...I doubt he’s living in northern Spain though.

Silueta
Re: School Days by Joaquin

I remember my schools days as one of the happiest period of my life, and not only for the time I spent at school, but for the time I and my classmates spent after the school. We played beisbal almost every day, amd some of us belonged to a reserved club dedicated to investigate secrets about the rest os classmates. And of course, I remember how the boys tried to approach to the girls; my first girlfriend, etc…Of course, not everything was great. I remember a math’s teacher: “Mr. Peter” that scared us a lot. He started to read the list of our names everyday, and suddlendy he stopped. The next one in the list should go out to the blackboard to answer teacher’s questions and solve the math’s exercises. Mr. PEter shouted and got very angry if you did’nt answer correctly.
If I could go back, I wouldn’t change anything .It was a period without any worries or hard responsabilities, where the most important thing was to get fun.

Silueta
Re: School Days by Reyes

Hello Jeremy,
I’ve liked very much your article….
I often stay with some of my partners of the institute. I have very good memories of the shool and institute.
When I was stutying 8º of Basic Education, my teacher of Mathematics was a joker, all te kids we were wishing this class to come. It had the virtue of convert the mathematics into a game.
Already in the institute, when I was studying the first grade, I remember that it had charming teacher of French, Mss Lusiemme (I believe that it wrote so) She was old (but lovely and funy) this year was moving back from the Education and we did to her a big party of farewell.
Often, I remain with one of my better friends, she’s Mª José, and with my friend Raquel. The coincidence did that we were in the swimming (I and my daugthers) we saw. Raquel wnet to New York when she married, now after almost 15 years, se has returned to Seville. Now we go together to the swimming pool.
Until a few years ago, there was an annual meeting in the institute, the affiliation of kids was organizing it. This day may memories come to your mind and you think about everthing throught what you have lived, and everything what you have obtanined…... and you have been fine, you’re glad and load yourself of new energy.
For this reason and alot of more, “We must never lose the contact with our friend”
Cheers…...cheers….. bye Jeremy.
Reyes.

Donalgreece2
Re: School Days by Domnall

“I love everything that’s old, – old friends, old times, old manners, old books, old wineâ€?
-Oliver Goldsmith (Irishman!)

Silueta
Re: School Days by Anonymous

I only keep in touch with a school friend, and I’m trying to find my best friend at the University. I would like to know when life has driven him…

Silueta
Re: School Days by Alaz

The first day i went to secondary school, i met a girl, named Esra, and loved her much. We spent our time together in the school, and learnt ourselves very well. We were kids, we didnt mind the hardness of world, but now we are 22 years old and planning to marry 4 years later. .
Alaz

Ginaclose
class reunions by Gina

I finished high school in 1977 and continued to grow up, despite the geographical distance, with a handful of classmates. Twenty-five years later, in 2002, all 250 of us who graduated together (minus whoever had died or were not locate-able), all women, celebrated our Silver Jubilee. It lasted a whole year and ended with a big party, and it was a sentimental, mushy experience bordering on soap, but it was very important.

Quinton
In response... by Jeremy

Hi…
Joaquín! Your maths teacher does indeed sound scary, the type of teacher who tends to intimidate the students, right? Like you, when I look back I immediately think of the lack of real worries and responsibilities. Mind you…although at my school we sometimes played “rounders” in the summer (a “British” version of baseball maybe?) there was no secret “student investigation club”...as far as I know!
(P.S. Your English is great. How good’s your maths!?)
..........
Dónal – old cheese too???!!! Surely not…
.........
Hello Alaz – what a story. A bit of “authentic romance” there…to contrast with next week’s Saint Valentine’s show! If you’d been one of “Mr Peter’s” students that Joaquín mentioned in his original message, I wonder if you’d have noticed that he was waiting for you to go up to the blackboard. Maybe you’d have been simply staring at Esra!
Your story has made me think if any of my schoolmates, from secondary school, got married. I can only think of one couple – Scott (judo expert!) and Sarah (always smiling) – who came to Spain for a few years to run a bar.
.........
Gina…
Wow. I’ve never heard of a school reunion done with so much panache! In fact, just thinking of the logisitics of a global get-together…and I wonder how often this sort of thing actually happens! So the Golden Jubillee will be…two thousand and…

Wesleyboda_small
10-20-30-40... by Wesley

Every ten years Americans have a high school reunion. My first will be in 2008. I remember my grandmother going to hers, too, even a 50 year reunion in 1999.
I don’t know what they’re like; I’ll tell you next year. I can say that in looking up my classmates, I was a bit disappointed to see where people are and what they are doing. I hope there will be something to talk about…

Quinton
Re: School Days by Jeremy

...but, I’m thinking, where would you find all that information about what ex-classmates are doing now? They’ve all stuck it on some website? It’s interesting to read that in the USA high school reunions are so popular. “High school life” certainly plays a big part…if the films are anything to go on!
MOst of the kids I know or knew want/ wanted to get out of school and have no more contact with it…as quickly as possible! I guess it depends on whether you stay around in the area where you went to school or not.

Paulg
Re: School Days by Paul

Excellent article Jez!
To tell you the truth I have only gone to one class reunion and I really had a good time. I was already engaged to be married, so there was no peer pressure of any sort to speak of…
That was my high school reunion, but I would never go to my grade school reunion. From what I hear, one of my classmates, Michael Griggs committed suicide, another one flipped out and became a junky, and last time I heard, everyone who has got married is now separate or trying to get divorced – which makes me sick to my stomache.
On the other hand, looking on the bright side, it’s not as bad as my brother Jim’s graduating class from the seminary – he and one other are the only ones left after 5 years: there were about 15 and 13 of them died within five years of graduation all before the age of 45. Now that’s scary!!
But I guess it makes class reunions easier to organize…..

Quinton
Re: School Days by Jeremy

Hi Paul…”grade school” is “primary” school, right? I’m not sure that I’ve ever heard of any primary school reunion…but who knows. As for the “peer pressure” you mention…is that “pressure to peer”? If so..at what?! je, je..!

Silueta
Re: School Days by Anonymous

I don’t care about seeing none of my classmates at the school. I didn’t spend a good time there, although there were some moments I felt well. I began to be happy at the university. I met people of my mood and I felt really well. All my thoughts go there. I can remember the classes and what is more important, after the classes. I met a very cheerful group of people to chat and share time. And above all…. I met my husband.
The last year at the university, we were 25 students at classroom. Well, 14 of us continue meeting every year to celebrate our Patron Saint: Saint Albert Magnus. Time goes but every year I look at their faces I see them as young as they used to be 25 years ago. It’s incredible. Now, we’re preparing our 25th anniversary. We are collecting photos to do a poster, we’re planning to travel altogether and if it’s not possible we’ll go out to some near place. Isn’t it nice?
Have a very good week-end.
Lourdes

Quinton
Re: School Days by Jeremy

Hi Lourdes,
It sounds like you’ve got a really close group of uni friends. What did you all study though? I mean, what is Saint Albert Magnus the patron saint of?
Best regards & have a good week!
Jeremy

Lourdesalaez
Re: School Days by Lourdes

Hello Jeremy and everybody,
I studied Chemistry at the University of Leioa in Biscay. We were eighty students the first year and only twenty-five at second year. So we knew each other and when we were at the last year there was a teachers strike, so we were free for some days (I can’t remember how many). It can be very bored to stay at home all the day while your friends are studying, so some of us (ten) decided to do some hike. It was the seed of our friends group. We meet altogether four or five times a year with our families and nowadays we are thirty-five.
Every year on 15th of November (or the saturday next to this day) only the ones who finished last year at the university meet together to have lunch. We’ll celebrate our 25th anniversary this 2007. My husband and I are the only couple.
Thank your very much Jeremy for answering my comment. It’s been very kind of you. Besides, it’s a very good article, I like a lot the definitions of your classmates.
Have a very good weekend,
Lourdes

Quinton
Re: School Days by Jeremy

Hi Lourdes,
Now that I can see your photo I remember the chats in 2005! Aha…so now I know…chemistry is your subject. It sounds like your first year was pretty tough!...with only, what, a quarter of the students continuing to the second year. It sounded like not even all the teachers survived the whole course!!
One of the many aspects of life here that I like, admire and enjoy is the fact that & way in which people maintain contact & friendships…
Once again Lourdes…have a good weekend.
Aupa Eenyowterriak!
Jeremy
P.S. Have you heard the phrase “good chemistry” used in the context of a good atmosphere between a couple or group of people? There was clearly “good chemistry” in more ways than one in your uni year (excuse the joke!!)...in fact…now that I think of it, the same phrase exists in Spanish I think…is that true?

Lourdesalaez
Re: School Days by Lourdes

Hello Jeremy,
Sorry for not answering sooner. Yes, we also use the expression “good chemistry” in Spanish. And we had a very good chemistry at the university and at our videoconference experience.
We had the opportunity of improving our English with very good teachers, all of you. Not only we had lessons by the CDs but also we received and wrote letters with our tutors and had videoconferences shared with others institutes. I remember a very nice man and woman in Elorrieta (I can’t remember the names). Well, one day in San Ignacio’s station, passing from a platform to the other one I saw a known face. It was the woman from Elorrieta. We stopped and chatted for a while.
I also keep in contact with Pao. She was my teacher the last two years and became a very good friend of mine.
Have a very nice week-end!!
Lourdes

Silueta
Re: School Days by Nuria

Hi everybody!
I just keep in contact with three good classmates from secondary school.
My university and work colleages take most of my time nowadays, so I have to prioritize.
Once, I met a classmate on the street, 10 years after we had finished the school. I remembered having a very good time together sitting next to each other in class. However, I was a bit disappointed when I realised that we had few things in common after so many years, and that we had little to tell after five minutes of conversation.

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